Have you noticed how a child live?
She plays hard, cries out loud, enjoys each and every moment without hang ups and inhibitions. She never holds grudge against your moods and attachments, and she lets bygones be bygones. She has no judgments or label on people or things. She is at peace within herself. And when the day is done, we say good night, she sleeps deep and sweet.
Are you at peace? Can you hold your emotions in check and act with grace and dignity? Do you tell yourself stories about how things should be or let them speak for themselves? Do you speak of lofty ideals but never come through on anything? Do you try to be spiritual or really?
And at the end of the day, do you sleep well?
If not, you got a long way to go. If yes, keep going.